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Parental Responsibility Solicitors

Clear, compassionate advice on parental responsibility, whoever you are and whatever your family looks like.

  • Straightforward answers on who has parental responsibility for your child
  • Help getting a Parental Responsibility Agreement or Order in place
  • Support resolving disagreements over your child’s upbringing
  • A personal, director-led team who explain things in plain English

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If you’re separating from your child’s other parent, or you’re a grandparent, step-parent or wider family member stepping into a caring role, it’s natural to want to know exactly where you stand. Parental responsibility decides who has a legal say in a child’s upbringing, from their schooling to their medical care and where they live. Our children law solicitors, led by directors Louise Halford and Robin Charrot, help parents and carers across Manchester and Cheshire understand their parental responsibility, put the right agreement or order in place, and resolve disagreements when they arise.

Parental responsibility is a legal concept set out in the Children Act 1989, and it can work slightly differently depending on your circumstances. This page covers parental responsibility law in England and Wales.

When do you need a parental responsibility solicitor?

You might need advice on parental responsibility if:

  • You’re an unmarried father and aren’t named on your child’s birth certificate
  • You’re a step-parent who wants formal legal recognition of your role
  • You’re a grandparent or family member raising a child and need your caring role recognised
  • Your child’s other parent is making decisions – about school, medical treatment, or a name change – without involving you
  • You and your child’s other parent can’t agree on something significant, such as moving abroad, changing religion, or relocating within the UK

Whatever brings you to us, our solicitors will help you understand exactly where you stand and what your options are.

Not sure where to start?

If you’ve never dealt with a solicitor before, it’s natural to feel daunted. Get in touch, tell us what’s happening, and we’ll explain your options clearly and calmly, one step at a time.

  1. 1

    We listen and advise – you tell us what’s happening and what you’d like for your children, and we explain your options clearly, along with the likely outcomes, so you can make informed decisions.

  2. 2

    We help you reach agreement – through direct negotiation or family mediation wherever possible, keeping things calm for your children.

  3. 3

    We formalise or represent – we can record your agreement in a parenting plan or consent order, or apply to the court for a child arrangements order and represent you firmly if agreement isn’t possible.

Why choose Evolve’s children law solicitors

Children first

Every decision we help you make starts with what’s best for your children.

We keep things calm

We resolve as much as possible by agreement, sparing your children the stress of court.

On your side in court

Robust, expert representation when agreement isn’t possible.

Employee-owned

Everyone you deal with has a personal stake in getting the right outcome for your family.

Transparent pricing

Our fees are published online.

Meet the team

Our children law team is led by directors Louise Halford and Robin Charrot, supported by a wider team of experienced solicitors – all ready to help with your parental responsibility matter.

  • Robin Charrot

    Robin Charrot

    Solicitor & Founding Director

  • Louise Halford

    Louise Halford

    Solicitor & Founding Director

  • Debra Lowy

    Debra Lowy

    Managing Senior Solicitor

  • Andrew Lee

    Andrew Lee

    Solicitor

  • Rachael Wood

    Rachael Wood

    Solicitor

  • Eluned Roberts

    Eluned Roberts

    Solicitor

  • Amber Oakley

    Amber Oakley

    Solicitor

  • Lauren Riley

    Lauren Riley

    Solicitor

  • Georgina Hill-Jones

    Georgina Hill-Jones

    Solicitor

Parental responsibility – your questions answered

Parental responsibility gives you the legal right to have a say in how your child is brought up, including decisions about their education, medical treatment, religion and where they live. If both parents have parental responsibility, both have a right to be involved in major decisions about their child. Having parental responsibility also means you’re entitled to receive certain information about your child, such as school reports and copies of medical records.

If you don’t have parental responsibility, you’re still liable to pay child maintenance, and you can still apply to court – for example, for a Child Arrangement Order to see your child.

Under English and Welsh law, a person has parental responsibility for a child if they are:

  • The child’s birth mother
  • The child’s father, and married to the mother (at the time of birth or since)
  • The child’s father, and named on the birth certificate as the father (where the child was born after 1 December 2003)
  • An unmarried father who has signed a Parental Responsibility Agreement with the child’s mother
  • An unmarried father who has been granted a Parental Responsibility Order by the court
  • Someone caring for a child under a court order stating the child lives with them
  • A parent who has had a child through a surrogacy arrangement and obtained a parental order
  • An adoptive parent
  • A step-parent who has parental responsibility through a Parental Responsibility Agreement or court order

If you’re a parent without parental responsibility, there are two main routes: signing a Parental Responsibility Agreement with your child’s other parent, or applying to court for a Parental Responsibility Order if agreement isn’t possible.

If you’re not your child’s parent but you’re caring for them – as a grandparent or step-parent, for example – you can apply for permission to seek a Child Arrangement Order. While that order is in force, you’ll hold parental responsibility alongside anyone else who has it.

Not automatically. A step-parent can gain parental responsibility either by agreement with everyone who already holds it, or by court order. Our solicitors can advise on the right route for your family and help put the agreement or application in place.

Parental responsibility tends to matter most when parents, or others who share it, can’t agree on what’s best for their child – for example, whether they should:

  • Move abroad with one parent
  • Move to a different part of the UK with one parent
  • Change school
  • Change their surname
  • Change religion

If you’re the only person with parental responsibility, you can generally make these decisions yourself. If you share parental responsibility and can’t reach agreement, the court can step in to decide what’s in your child’s best interests – for example, through a specific issue order or prohibited steps order (our children law page covers these in more detail), or, where a move abroad is in dispute, a relocation order.

Even without parental responsibility, you can apply to the court for arrangements to see your child, and you remain liable for child maintenance. If you’re unsure what this means for you, it’s worth taking early legal advice – the sooner you understand your position, the sooner you can plan your next step.

Put your children first, with the right advice

Knowing exactly where you stand on parental responsibility can make everything else – decisions about school, medical care, or where your child lives – feel clearer and calmer. We’ll help you understand your rights, put the right agreement in place, or stand firmly in your corner if it’s contested. There’s no pressure and no obligation.